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Don't Have Your Messages Deleted!

Make sure you're email catches the imagination!

If this is the first free email you've ever sent on a swingers site, then relax, it really isn't any different from making contact with any one else, excluding the topic of discussion that is!

"Put some effort into your email, 'fancy a shag' will get you no where fast!"

There's a delicate balance to be had when sending emails to swingers you've seen on the site, if you make your message too short it will probably be regarded as being sent by someone that has put no effort into it and be deleted, if you make it too long it will probably get deleted as well due to the receiver not having the time or inclination to read through it all.

"Make sure you match what the person you are writing to is looking for"

Keep it honest, and to the point, remember, that your message will not be the only one the people you are writing to have received today so if it seems as though you are lying, rambling on about nothing or going into full detail about one of YOUR fantasies, they are more likely to delete your message and move on to the next one!

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Stay Secure and don't pass out any personal contact information until you are completely happy to do so. The internal mail system is secure and doesn't rely on your email address in order for you to receive mail.

Personalise your message so if the profile you are writing to mentions a love of dogging, and you too are interested in that side of the scene, you mention it, if the profile states that they want to meet people for discrete liaisons, explain how you are happy to be discrete etc. A standard message sent out to hundreds of members stands out a mile, and will simply be deleted.

Read the profile you're writing to! It may seem common sense, but one of the biggest complaints is that members get lots of mail from people that simply haven't read their profile.

"If a profile states "no photo, no reply" don't expect a great response if you write without having a photo on your profile"

And whatever you do, don't try to explain not having a photo away with excuses that you can't upload or scan an image, it doesn't wash with experienced swingers and makes you look like a timewaster!

On the same basis, if you are a single guy and you're sending a message to a profile that doesn't specify they are looking for single guys, don't expect to get a positive response!

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