Soft swing meetings are often the first
step into swinging that a new couple will make!
Many couples look at soft swing as the perfect way to
step into the lifestyle as it allows then to experience the
swapping of partners, often for the first time, whilst at
the same time allowing them to make some new soft swing
And like other areas of the scene, soft swapping has it's
own terms of etiquette and rules. As soft swap is generally
a couple's first experience in the lifestyle, we felt it
would be useful to give some guidance to help it run as
smoothly as possible.
"Many couples that soft swap do so as they
like to keep the intimacy of full sex for their
partners, but enjoy the variety of new sexual partners"
The soft swing experience can be individualised into three distinct sub
genres, make sure you know what kind of soft swing the
couple you are planning to meet are into.
- Same Room -
Essentially this involves two or more couples in the
same room, each having sex with their own partners only.
It is the watching and being watched that arouses these
same room soft swap swingers and this is often the very
first step into the scene.
- Girl Girl Only -
The female members of the couples will play together,
generally, watched by the male members from the
sidelines. The male members may join their own partner
after the two women have finished their fun. This is
quite popular due to the amount of
bisexual females and bi-curious women within steady relationships.
- Soft Swapping -
The ultimate soft swing. The partners of the two couples
will swap and play, but will go no further than oral sex
and maybe kissing. Penetrative sex is saved for their
own partners, unlike in
situations however, there is generally lots of girl
girl action taking part as well.
So there you have it, which genre do you fall into, or do
you cross the lines a bit? No one couple will be exactly the
same as another so remember to communicate with the people
you plan to meet, asking and answering questions at an early
stage can avoid a lot of embarrassment later!
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If you're new to the scene and want to read more before
you start making contacts, then you may find it useful to
read our new swingers
section which is full of tips and advice specifically for
those new to the lifestyle.