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Swinging Couples - Twice The Fun?

So, you and your partner have decided to swing - What's next?

The first thing to do now you've decided to swing, is ask yourselves why you want to swing! Sound daft? Maybe, but it makes sense in the long run. If you don't know why you want to start swinging and what you hope to get out if it, it can all end in tears!

"Many couples come in to the scene thinking that it is a good way to save a failing marriage, in our opinion, this should be avoided"

If a relationship already has problems, it is more likely that swinging, or wife swapping,  will make it worse, obviously this is not always the case, but in our opinion it is more likely than not to cause further problems in the relationship.

"Both partners of a couple need to be happy to swing, if one isn't, don't push them into it, you'll regret it"

Ok, now you need to decide your own boundaries, sit down with your partner and decide what you do and don't want to see each other doing, for example, a lot of swinging couples don't like to see each other kissing other people as it is seen as an intimate gesture, making a list is often a good start.

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So, you now know that you both want to swing, you have a set of guidelines, so to speak, laid out with your partner to govern your behaviour, what's next?

Well, the next step is to decide how far you want to go, and whether you want to be 'soft swingers' or 'full swap' swingers.

"Do you want to play together in the same room or will you play separately in different rooms?"

You also need to decide on the type of member you are looking to meet, do you want to meet single females, single guys or couples? If you're a bisexual couple, do you want to meet a similar bisexual couple or are you happy to meet a straight couple.

Now you have all that decided, it's time to place your swingers advert, mention in your advert the things you have decided upon like the type of members you wish to meet and the type of activities you're looking to take part in, I.e. same room fun, group, girl on girl etc.

If you're a straight couple and you get a mail from a bisexual couple, don't be scared off, you will often find that the 'bisexual' part of the profile is in fact the female member, and if the male partner is bisexual, don't worry, if he knows that you're straight, he won't try and convert you!

Now you have your profile registered it time to head off to the chatroom to make some new friends, and hit the search section and find swingers that you like in your area, and introduce yourself to the community by posting in the forums.

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