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Make sure you don't fit the mould!

Sound stupid? It will all soon make sense!

As a single guy in the swinging scene you have the hardest job to do out of all the genre's in order to draw attention to your profile and stand out from the rest of the crowd!

"There are almost 4 times as many single guys on the scene as couples and single females that are looking"

This means that not only do you have more competition, but you also have to escape from being classed as 'just another single male'.

The first thing to do is actually read the profile of the person you are looking to make contact with, if it doesn't say at the bottom 'I'm looking to hear from single males' then move on to the next one and don't waste time by responding, if they wanted to hear from single guys, they'd mention it first!

"It is not impossible to succeed in the swinging scene as a single male if you use good old fashioned common sense and courtesy"

Make sure you have a photo*¹ on your profile, nearly all of the couples and single females on the site will request a photo of you before they get involved in drawn out discussions with you, so make sure you read the advice for uploading a good photo prior to making contact.

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Single guys have a got a pretty bad reputation in general as many seem to believe that this scene is their's to control and that the couples and single females should be grateful they are here.

"The couples and single females control the scene, not the single guys - sorry!"

As such you will need to step above this reputation and make sure that you are not seen in this light. When you write to a couple, make sure you write something that makes sense and don't just aim the mail towards the female party of the profile you are contacting.

If you fail to acknowledge the male partner in the couple, you are much more likely to be ignored or told no thanks. For more information on writing a good message, have a look at our sending your first message page.

If you're in the chatroom, again, the first thing to realise is that by reading the profile of a member in the room you are saving both yourself and the member in question time, as if you don't match what they or she is looking for, there is no point trying to start a conversation!

Don't assume anything, if a couple or a single female is good enough to have a conversation with you in the chatroom, don't assume that automatically means they wish to meet and play with you, swingers are a friendly bunch, don't abuse their friendship.

As mentioned previously, common sense will prevail and help you stand above the default 'single male' profile, use yours and you stand a good chance of meeting both couples and single females!

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*¹ - Cock shots and genital only shots do not count as photos, please ensure you upload a knees to shoulders photo or a face picture.

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