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Understand Your Position In The Scene!

And realise what fun you can have as a single female swinger!

Single women in the swinging scene are without the doubt the most sought after genre, as such, being a single female you have the ability to have possibly more fun than any other group!

"With couples, single guys and single women looking to contact single females, the choice is yours"

Quite simply you are the jewel of the scene and everyone will want to make contact with you, especially if you have uploaded a photo to your profile.

This gives you a great position, you don't have to except the first invitation that comes along as you can afford to be picky over the people you meet and play with. However, there are downfalls, and the main one is the amount of email you will receive from other members on the site, especially the horny single guys that wish to talk to you.

"we are aware that some of the single females on the site are receiving over 100 email a day from single guys that want to meet them"

There are numerous ways to reduce the amount of mail you receive, one is to state that you only want to hear from specific member groups, or that you don't want to hear from others, I.e. "not looking for single guys"

The other way is to restrict the people from whom you receive mail to only the premium members, this simply means you will cut out all the people that have decided against upgrading including a lot of the picture collectors, drunks and fakes.

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So what actually about meeting other members?

This is where common sense and good planning come in.

Your safety has to be at the fore front of your mind, and whilst you will find that most of the people you meet on the site are very friendly and genuine, you will always come across a few strange ones!

There are various ways to ensure your safety but possible the easiest one is to ensure that someone knows where your going, at what time and with whom! Obviously we understand you may not wish to tell your mum, but if you make friends on the site, they will be happy to look out for you.

"If in doubt, make your excuses and leave"

Make sure you meet in a public place like a hotel or cafe first, this way if it doesn't feel right or you simply change your mind, you have an easy escape as there will be plenty of people in the near vicinity.

Ensure you have spent time talking with the person or people you are going to meet prior to meeting up so that everyone knows what is expected.

Most of your conversation will no doubt happen in the chatroom or via the internal mail system, but make sure you have spoken on the phone as well, this will not only give you a better idea of the person you are meeting, but will also provide you with a landline phone number.

"If you're nervous, that's to be expected, but don't try and counteract nerves with alcohol"

One or two drinks is to be expected, but it's amazing how unattractive, to even the horniest male, you will become if you go overboard!

In short, make sure you feel happy with the situation you are walking into, if you're not, leave. If you follow just some very simple steps we guarantee you will have a lot of fun in this scene and make some great new friends.

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